You missed our wild days and we're settled down now. We've learned a lot from our previous relationships. It's not like a guy who's five years older than you is going to be taking you out for the Denny's early bird special ever day before promptly going to bed, but odds are those 5 a.m. We can still drink people under the table, we just don't want to do it at some crappy, crowded dive bar. We don't want to be shoving our way through a bunch of sweaty people to get them. You're going to hear stories about "the old days" and wonder why we aren't as fun anymore. All right, so no one knows what they want, but we've got a job, if not a career, and some money saved up, because we already did that thing where you spend all your money and then have no money.7. However cool it makes you is exactly how lame it makes him.You might feel like Joan Jett when he picks you up in his Seville outside the high school in front of all your friends, but he is being mercilessly mocked by all of the women in his life for dating a 14-year-old.2.Source: Shutterstock The dating world can be unpredictable, to say the least!Sometimes there is no telling who you will hit it off with and who you won’t.This may be true for some older men, but surely not for all of them.Before getting too emotionally invested with the relationship, make sure he wants more than just a friend with benefits.
Beyond the obvious differences, what is there under the surface that you need to know?Dating older men can definitely be an overwhelming proposition.At the same time though, it can be very rewarding and something that both parties can get a lot out of. You can't teach an old dog not to eat a bag of potato chips right before bed, as they say.12. This isn't our first time at the vagina rodeo, if you know what I mean. We've picked up a lot of habits (some bad and some good), but you're not about to change them. First of all, let’s ditch the oldest myths in the book: (a) Not every older man wants to settle down (b) Not every younger man wants to date tons of women Many women believe dating older men is the best way to go to secure commitment.